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Gay dating ideas are very much like to those that could be recommended for a heterosexual woman who wants to take her boyfriend out.

One of the most nerve-racking things about your search for that special relationship, gay or straight, is the dating process. However, the dating process can also be, and should be, one of the most exciting parts of finding the right guy. Dating can seem dull at times because too often we resort to the classic dinner and a movie idea. Dinner and a movie can be a great date, but why not switch it up a bit and really wow that prospective Mr. Right? Here are a few entertaining suggestions you can use when getting ready to go on your next date, whether it’s the first date or yours and his weekly date night.

1. A stand-by date proposal is going for a round or two of miniature golf. Mini-golf or Putt Putt, as it is sometimes called is a great way to participate in an invigorating (without being strenuous) activity but still have a solid conversation. Golfing is an intimate enough game in that will allow you to get to know each other while not just sitting in a restaurant. Whether you’re any good at the sport or not, flirting over your skills or lack thereof is a great way to lighten things up and get off to a casual start. Just be certain to leave your overly competitive side at your house.

2. If you live around a major city, a wonderful date is to go for a night on the town. A major downtown area always has plenty of eclectic activities to keep you pleasantly occupied. Whether you’re going in and out of stores, or strolling through a park, the environment around you will provide for a great time, and some great memories. The exciting atmosphere of the town will also perk up lots of easy conversation, and is a great way to learn about each other. You may even do something that’s unique to the city, such as a stage performance, check out the skyline, or go to the art museum.

3. If you two are energetic and able, you might think about going on a robust hike. Most communities have forest preserves or nature centers that are a great place to walk together. The change of scenery will surely be remembered as a fun date and can stimulate conversation about nature. A vigorous walk is great for having the natural environment spark a romantic mood. You might bring along a picnic basket and eat surrounded by the forest.

4. Think seasonally! In the summer, go to a baseball game. It doesn’t matter if there are no major league teams near you; the minor leagues or watching a local soft ball team can be just as much fun. In the winter, try sledding if you are in a cold weather zone. It’s casual, and it requires absolutely no skills. In the spring, pack a lunch and take a long drive to see the newly blooming flowers. In the fall, I would vote for a football game (playing or watching), but maybe going to a hilltop and picnicking while you admire the foilage might be more the thing for you and your guy.

Dating can and should be a fun part of being in or starting a relationship. Building a social dating environment is important in order to get to know the other person. You might not recall forever that lousy movie you watched, but you’re sure to recall the excitement of one of these more creative date ideas.